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February 12, 2007

Homophobia Trumps RacismIssues

Rick Kamdar, a senior at American University, has been expelled for calling another student a gay slur.

But there’s more to the story (reg required)…

Kamdar said the incident began when he asked a student on the quad for a light, and the student’s friend told Kamdar to “Go back to India.” Kamdar then used an anti-gay slur against the student and the two began pushing each other. The fight was quickly broken up by Public Safety.
Although Kamdar was expelled, the student who allegedly started the whole thing faces no disciplinary action whatsoever.
Kamdar is appealing the decision, hoping that he will be allowed to finish his last semester or at least have the dismissal removed from his transcript.

“After three years of fighting cancer, I was only going to graduate a year late,” he said. “I would not throw [my education] away.”

Kamdar said he is planning to sue the university over the hearing.

Before I go any further, I’d like to acknowledge that I couldn’t find much else about this case. So my comments are limited by what I know from this article (and if we have any readers from AU who are more familiar with this story, feel free to let me know if there are any factual errors in this post).

First, it’s never ok to use a gay slur. I don’t care what the context is — even if you’re surrounded only by straight people and you say it in jest, it’s still not ok. I’m not going to defend Kamdar’s use of it, nor am I going to defend this silly excuse of his:

“The word fag is a very common word; it doesn’t always mean gay,” Kamdar said. “Did I know he was gay? No. Apparently American University has concluded that people can look gay.”
That being said, why is he being disciplined and not the person who provoked him in the first place? Why the double standard?

And is an expulsion really necessary? If Kamdar had committed a hate crime, or had verbally harassed a gay student for no reason, then yes, I would think that an expulsion is appropriate. But this situation is a little bit more complex. And I also have to wonder: has every person who has ever used this word at AU been expelled? I assume not. If the university wants to make an example of Kamdar, fine — sentence to him community service or put him on probation. Expulsion, on the other hand, seems pretty extreme. (And yes, I would argue that if someone were to use a racial slur in a similar situation, then an expulsion wouldn’t be warranted, either.)

I’d be interested to see how this story develops. Again, feel free to let me know if you’re more familiar with this case and/or there are details that I’m unaware of.

naina on February 12, 2007 11:25 AM in Issues · T·r·a·c·k·b·a·c·k address · Direct link · Email post



176 comments

 1 · Gazsi on February 12, 2007 11:39 AM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

This is ridiculous for a number of reasons.


 2 · instant_karma on February 12, 2007 11:46 AM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

well i think kamdar made big mistake using gay slurs he shud have used ethnic slurs and he would not have been suspened. currently in usa gay rights movement is massive and even that dude from gray's anatomy was kicked off the show for using the F word. so sad for kamdar bcoz no employer will hire him either. his career and life is over in USA. time for the flight bak home.


 3 · Mr Kobayashi on February 12, 2007 11:48 AM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

“Sometimes God likes to put two guys in a paper bag and just let ‘em rip.” Gavin (Ben Affleck), Changing Lanes.


 4 · risible on February 12, 2007 11:51 AM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

He should have called him "cracker," "whitey" or "trailer trash." The slurs would have cancelled each other out in the absurd relativist mode. He blundered by slandering homosexuals, which you simply cannot do in America. What a shame. Another life marred in a moment of idiocy.


 5 · Manju on February 12, 2007 11:51 AM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
That being said, why is he being disciplined and not the person who provoked him in the first place?

My guess is he initiated the physical violence. Just a guess.


 6 · Santosh on February 12, 2007 11:53 AM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

On a related note "fagging" is another word for smoking commonly used on Indian campuses.


 7 · MG on February 12, 2007 11:57 AM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
“After three years of fighting cancer

Hang on, and why is he still smoking? may be its for medical marijuana??


 8 · instant_karma on February 12, 2007 11:58 AM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

yes risible well said. shud have called him trailor trash or redneck or hillbilly lolzzzz

gay slurs have zero tolerance in American Society.


 9 · coach diesel on February 12, 2007 12:09 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

so sad for kamdar bcoz no employer will hire him either. his career and life is over in USA. time for the flight bak home.

Where in the above article did it say Kamdar is not a U.S. citizen? What flight home and to where? Huh??

As for the expulsion thing, I dunno about AU but some colleges and high schools have you sign a copy of school policies or a pledge of conduct to the effect that you understand that breaking certain rules equals expulsion. VCU has you do that under the honor code for cheating. Perhaps that's the case?

Anyhow, yes, of course I agree with Naina on all her points, however, speaking as a teacher, it's very common for one party to tattle-"Well he/she said this first!" or "He was messin' with me, etc"

My prescription-for a similiar slur that happened in my classroom two weeks ago...

White student was being called fag by black students. They also dissed white students' mother, mom's body and called her a prositute. (White student is diagnosed ED and on meds.) White student reacted by lunging at the two students messing with him, turning over chairs and said, "I'm a cut you niggas."

All parties had to do 100 push-ups with my foot on their back, got removed by security, got a phone call home from me, suspended for the rest of the day, and a referral to the VP. One day of in-school suspension after that plus three days of detention.

How's that work for ya in terms of disciplinary action?


 10 · Naiverealist on February 12, 2007 12:11 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
On a related note "fagging" is another word for smoking commonly used on Indian campuses.

ditto. a fag = a cigarette on Indian campuses

inherited from the British Raj


 11 · chick pea on February 12, 2007 12:14 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

both of them need therapy. isn't that where isiah washington and lindsey lohan are? or is that wonderland--with shopping sprees, award shows, and restaurant breaks in between? i get all confused.


 12 · chick pea on February 12, 2007 12:15 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
After three years of fighting cancer, I was only going to graduate a year late,” he said. “I would not throw [my education] away.”

how old is this guy? he's in the right age demographic for testicular cancer.. just curious.


 13 · instant_karma on February 12, 2007 12:17 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

coach diesel whether hez on a student visa or a resident/citizen his life is over here well maybe you are right he could drive a cab. bottom line is he will not succeed in his career. plz look at what happen with Isaiah when used the word faggot at his costar. he was out of a job in a flash. what about famous baseball closer john rocker. the media destroyed his career. so tell me who is kamdar? hez over and time to seek refugee elsewhere.


 14 · Mr Kobayashi on February 12, 2007 12:21 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
All parties had to do 100 push-ups with my foot on their back, got removed by security, got a phone call home from me, suspended for the rest of the day, and a referral to the VP. One day of in-school suspension after that plus three days of detention.

How's that work for ya in terms of disciplinary action?

Coach Diesel, you are the ultimate. Damn.


 15 · SP on February 12, 2007 12:23 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Incidents of slur-throwing are pretty common on college campuses, and if someone reports it to authorities then there's usually a disciplinary hearing + suspension. But if there's assault, it becomes a police matter, AFAIK - that was the case with the Guilford College football players who beat up and racially abused Palestinian students recently. It's not clear from the extract above if Kamdar is being charged with hate speech or assault or both.

Much as we may abhor gay slurs, it's really quite common for American boys (I use the word advisedly) to use it among themselves, even jokingly. Even on an uber-PC campus I can't say I remember a slur leading to someone being expelled. But things may have changed in the last ten years.

"Fagging" was also used in British public schools to refer to the practice of younger boys doing chores for older boys, like lighting their fires.


 16 · coach diesel on February 12, 2007 12:23 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Thanks Mr. K.

They now know that Coach don't play...


 17 · Umang on February 12, 2007 12:27 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
gay slurs have zero tolerance in American Society.

This sentiment needs to be modified -- gay slurs have zero tolerance at America's overzealously politically correct, self-rightous, speech censoring universities. Those bastions of "enlightenment" have a history of going overboard with their flavor-of-the-month brand of social consciousness. Right now, dissing south asians who are taking away jobs from "real americans" is the cause du jour of the Lou Dobbs crowd, so it doesn't surprise me that there were no consequences for the other student's remarks.

Xenophobia in America...don't call it a come back.


 18 · Jeet on February 12, 2007 12:28 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Stupid on so many levels...

even that dude from gray's anatomy was kicked off the show for using the F word

Isaiah Washington was not kicked off the show for calling the other guy faggot. He is supposedly in 'rehab' for his actions.


 19 · Ennis on February 12, 2007 12:30 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
White student is diagnosed ED and on meds

ED = ?


 20 · Manju on February 12, 2007 12:30 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

(White student is diagnosed ED and on meds.)

white student has erectile dysfunction?


 21 · Jeet on February 12, 2007 12:31 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

oh and coach diesel...we need you in Jersey city


 22 · jilted_manhood on February 12, 2007 12:31 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

" He should have called him "cracker," "whitey" or "trailer trash." "

" yes risible well said. shud have called him trailor trash or redneck or hillbilly lolzzzz "

Huh? Where in the post or in the linked story is the race of the other person identified? Where are the warnings by the trigger-happy bloggers? This is not the the first time I have pointed out how on this blog calling White people all kinds of names doesn't register a blip on the administrators' uber-sensitive souls.


 23 · coach diesel on February 12, 2007 12:32 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Sorry Ennis. ED is emotionally disturbed. We mainstream our kids so that special ed, general ed and IB all have PE/health classes together. I forget that these abreviations are mostly teacher or MD used.


 24 · instant_karma on February 12, 2007 12:35 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
Those bastions of "enlightenment" have a history of going overboard with their flavor-of-the-month brand of social consciousness.

Agree!

Jeet that's the spin they are putting on the story to downplay it. He will never return to the show.


 25 · instant_karma on February 12, 2007 12:39 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
Huh? Where in the post or in the linked story is the race of the other person identified? Where are the warnings by the trigger-happy bloggers? This is not the the first time I have pointed out how on this blog calling White people all kinds of names doesn't register a blip on the administrators' uber-sensitive souls.

jilted my point was he shud have replied in a similar manner. if someone tells u go back to mexico how will u respond? no am not saying i know u are from mexico. am just trying to give an example plz dont be so sensitive. i have read up and down this site where ppl say similar things about other races so plz control urself.


 26 · shimi on February 12, 2007 01:14 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

I don't think calling anyone by a racial or homophobic slur should play in society. For those of us that are queer and brown, it is a little dispiriting to read snarky comments about how it's okay to make racial slurs but not gay ones in "politically correct campuses" ( and don't get me started on how the term "politically correct" was retooled by the Right anyway). Both students were idiots for going there and then to let it descend into pushing and shoving was even dumber.
Finally, yes I know that "fag" is another term for cigarettes but I don't think that Kamdar meant to insult the dude by calling him a "cigarette". Unless by that he meant "flaming". And then he's back to Square One of Stupidity. He's been in the States long enough to know better.


 27 · jilted_manhood on February 12, 2007 01:20 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Let's say everything else being the same, the other guy was identified as Black. Would you then have dared wished out loud in your comment that Mr Kamdar should have used the n word? I don't think so. And even if you did you would have summarily been banned. On the other hand if the other guy was indeed known to be White, yours and Risible's wouldn't have been the only comments badmouthing Whites. Subsequently, only moralizing warnings would have been issued.


 28 · instant_karma on February 12, 2007 01:45 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

well if the other dude was identified as being black i wud have said kamdar shud have replied - go back to africa or go swing in trees wid ur brothers lolzzz. my point is kamdar got insulted and even i have been told this many times but i never take it seriously i just reply in similar manner. not that i necessarily mean it but it justifies itself in that situation. kamdar wanted to hurt him bak but unfortunately he dissed him about being gay instead of demoralising his race.

i think u are saying on this site white bashing is tolerated but such comments on other races are strictly prohibited??? well i have read many a post making fun of indians. let me find the one i read yesterday so i can show it to u. hang on.


 29 · salker on February 12, 2007 01:45 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

you can look up his friendster profile.


 30 · razib on February 12, 2007 01:52 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

expelling using slurs as a rationale is maoist (fighting is a different thing). there are a few slurs, like the n-word, which have deep salience, but we might as well become deaf mutes at the rate this is going. everyone is such a over-sensitive pu**sy. oops :-)


 31 · risible on February 12, 2007 02:05 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Jilted,

My point was not to insult European-Americans (some of whom are hard-working and articulate) but rather to suggest that the social costs of using an anti-white racial slur are substantially less than victimizing homosexuals on campus (Umang put it better than I). That I am a bedfellow with a guy who employs the term lozzz in this "controversy" is not my problem. If the racialist perpetrator does turn out to be non-white, I promise to "render" myself to a Department of Homeland Security-approved "unlearning" facility.


 32 · dilettante on February 12, 2007 02:15 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Jilted:

I don't like the word and I don't use it- but if you must write out 'the n word' just say nigger. You are giving the word more power than it actually has. In no other circumstances would I commend gansta rappers or other 'entertainers' use of it--- However their co-opting the word /the passage of time has taken away sting. It can never effect me as much as it did any person who came before me . I'm not saying you won't be in for an a** kicking if you use it in the wrong time or place , or that people may not come to the wrong conclusions about your politics - but that's life.

You have a valid point about hypocrisy- stand by it.


 33 · Manju on February 12, 2007 02:18 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
My point was not to insult European-Americans (some of whom are hard-working and articulate)

heh, heh, heh


 34 · MD on February 12, 2007 02:32 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Hmmmmm, I wonder what the real story is?


 35 · razib on February 12, 2007 02:40 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Hmmmmm, I wonder what the real story is?

that is the meta-story. a lot of these tales about slurs & racism & homophobia, etc., turn out to be righteous clouds people try to throw up to obscure situational conflicts which are much more prosaic.


 36 · Madhumita on February 12, 2007 02:41 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)


For those of you whining about being told to "go back to India," i want to ask what the connection is between that comment and the risk of violence on an American university campus? As opposed to, say, being called gay or a fag, which very often is the first step towards a violent attack -- for instance several Yalies, of all privileged white and non-white young people, get beaten up -- one's jaw was broken -- in San Fran about a month back.

Please don't justify harassment just because you might not be able to relate to it personally. South Asian American privilege is real, as is racism; gay bashing is real, and gayness confers no automatic community, little power, and no safety.


 37 · instant_karma on February 12, 2007 02:49 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

well bottom line is indians always take the worst of it and yes indians are tolerant lot but there comes a time when u got to stand up to these racist bastards. i see them everyday and listen to their "smart" comments well its time to take the gloves off.


 38 · BidiSmoker on February 12, 2007 02:54 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
Please don't justify harassment just because you might not be able to relate to it personally. South Asian American privilege is real, as is racism; gay bashing is real, and gayness confers no automatic community, little power, and no safety.

That's ridiculous. In economic and political terms, you're far better off as a white, middle class gay person that you are as a South Asian. Look at representation among the media, the arts and nearly every other public outlet.


 39 · MD on February 12, 2007 03:03 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

apologies, razib :)

I am boringly literal. The meta-story depends somewhat on the actual facts of the case, doesn't it?

1. How physical did it get? Was there a fight and what did the fight consist of?
2. Who witnessed the event, what did they say, and who were these witnesses?
3. Have any of these people been reprimanded for anything similar before?
4. Was anyone involved already on academic probabation, or something like that?
5. Has anyone been expelled before for saying things against a speech code?
6. How do we know the veracity of any of these claims, how was this brought up, who took the information, and how was it reviewed? By a committee, board, etc? Was it open to the public? Closed? Etc, etc, etc.

Okay, it's not a complete list, but I am curious.


 40 · instant_karma on February 12, 2007 03:05 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

well also consider they just issued a warning and did not expelled kamdar then what? well there will be ppl shouting from the gay movement and trust me they wud have been shouting 100 times louder. i think the school considered expelling and warning and realized they dont want to get on the wrong side of the gay movement. a decison made wid self interest in mind.


 41 · Manju on February 12, 2007 03:10 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
That's ridiculous. In economic and political terms, you're far better off as a white, middle class gay person that you are as a South Asian.

maybe...but at least your parents won't disown you for being south asian.


 42 · instant_karma on February 12, 2007 03:11 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

it doesnt matter if u are middle class or low class as long as u are WHITE u are BETTER OFF in USA


 43 · HMF on February 12, 2007 03:17 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
...but rather to suggest that the social costs of using an anti-white racial slur are substantially less than victimizing homosexuals on campus (Umang put it better than I).

Absolutely, there's no continent called Gay-frica where gays were brought by thousands to exist as property of heterosexuals. As for "Who has it better?" it's really not an equivalent comparison in my book, because each group is identified in an absolutely different manner.

I won't say "Gays choose to be gay" or anything like that, but fact is, they are identified by more sophisticated means apart from visual. Dress, mannerism, gait, speech. Essentially, they're identified by behavior. I concede that behavior could indeed be innate, but it's still behavior none the less, and it's not a trivial difference to what people of certain races experience.

(And even sometimes that behavior is more of a caricature than reality, I've met a few gay people - after someone else told me they were gay, I don't really have what some people call "gaydar")

But everyone has "blackdar" or "browndar"


 44 · razib on February 12, 2007 03:21 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

well bottom line is indians always take the worst of it

that's disgusting. try being black. i'm not a liberal on race, but i try to keep a sense of perspective. some people should go back to india (here's lookin' at you bidi, what are you waiting for?).


 45 · instant_karma on February 12, 2007 03:23 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

razib itz ppl like u that spoil a beautiful country


 46 · HMF on February 12, 2007 03:24 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
that's disgusting. try being black.

*clap*clap*clap*


 47 · razib on February 12, 2007 03:26 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

razib itz ppl like u that spoil a beautiful country

hope i spoil it enough so that people like will leave and go back to where you can parade your ethnic narcissism with no regrets.


 48 · instant_karma on February 12, 2007 03:29 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

well u can try all u wish but u cannot scare anyone my dear friend. and plz dont try to hide ur hate itz obvious here.


 49 · Manju on February 12, 2007 03:32 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
Kamdar said the incident began when he asked a student on the quad for a light, and the student’s friend told Kamdar to “Go back to India.” Kamdar then used an anti-gay slur against the student and the two began pushing each other.

if kamdar said "the two began pushing each other" then he probably threw the 1st punch or push, otherwise he would have said the other kid started it. and that's probably what really got him in trouble.

in the world of classic liberal jurisprudence, this would be the critical point, though it's unclear whether AU is part of this world. however, "fighting words" are recognized in common law as an initiation of violence, and a punch in retaliation could be self-defense, as long as the defender reasonably believed an assault was imminent.


 50 · razib on February 12, 2007 03:32 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

let me be explicit, when members of one of the wealthiest ethnic groups in america try and contend that they lay at the pinnacle of oppression or suffering in this country i want to barf. i'm brown, and i've lived in predominantly white areas of the USA for all my life. it isn't a picnic, but life is often a sequence of disappointments for humans, in general. there are quantitative and measurable differences in quality of life between various groups. a friend of mine once pointed out to a black man that he "got profiled when boarding airplanes." perspective people. a black man isn't just profiled when boarding airplanes, he is profiled constantly in his day to day life. if you can afford to fly, that indicates some level of privilege.

injustice exists. hopefully perspective will too.


 51 · razib on February 12, 2007 03:33 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

and plz dont try to hide ur hate itz obvious here.

i won't hide it. i hate people like you. at least from the small slice of narcissism you put on display here.


 52 · HMF on February 12, 2007 03:44 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
"fighting words" are recognized in common law as an initiation of violence, and a punch in retaliation could be self-defense, as long as the defender reasonably believed an assault was imminent

Is this true? I think the defender would need some pretty clear evidence the assault was imminent. For example, If a guy held up a gun to another guy and said "I am going to shoot you now" but the second guy shot him back first. But then the threat is more than just verbal.


 53 · instant_karma on February 12, 2007 03:45 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

razib sahib u seem quick to rush into judgements of others. well when u quoted me saying well bottom line is indians always take the worst of it well plz read it in context. i am not claming that indians are most discrimated race in USA. i am speaking about the use of slurs and being abused verbally. and i have heard my fair share some even directed at me. and plzzz dont tell me u hear every day a white guy calling a black guy the N word????? plz restrict the discussion to the topic and dont try to put words into my mouth.


 54 · razib on February 12, 2007 03:48 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

"go back to india" isn't a slur on the level as the n-word or even "f*g." perspective. and browns aren't slurred at every day. perhaps a cabbie is, but not a doctor. so, context.

p.s. i don't think someone should be expelled for using anti-gay slurs, but being the only brown guy in a high school of 900 (where only 5 other non-whites attended) was a lot less trying than being the only out gay guy from what i recall.


 55 · razib on February 12, 2007 03:50 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

p.p.s. to be clear, the gay guy was beat up regularly (once every few months from what i recall). i was subject to slurpy jokes and "compliments" about my command english.


 56 · SP on February 12, 2007 03:52 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Razib, I agree with the gist of your point, but I don't think the desi kids in Queens who got beaten up post 9/11 would agree that slurs on desis are generally harmless and desis are always protected by "privilege."


 57 · Neal (with no 'e') on February 12, 2007 03:56 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
South Asian American privilege is real, as is racism

This statement is a bit contradictory, isn't it? If we're "privileged", how can we be exposed to racism? Seems like there's a way to go before we can be called the oppressors.

This issue is just sad, although it's been emerging more and more. I hate that we're getting into the business of determining who's more oppressed. But, as always, there are lots of people willing to misuse identity politics (and yes, I mean BOTH racial and sexual identity). This issue reminds me of various problems around the borders of the major "gay neighborhoods" in Chicago. I predict that in the next 5 to 10 years we're going to see this happen again and again, as these two major strains of disadvantage start colliding more and more.


 58 · instant_karma on February 12, 2007 03:58 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

well yes i think itz more offensive to be called gay than be told to go back to india. but the only reason for that is everyone is making fun of the brown ppl so it has become accepted in our society. so many jokes are made on desi's these days even in recent superbowl ad where they had the indian dude saying booodlight instead of budlight. I think brown ppl have alot of tolerance and i havent seen anyone making a complaint about this ad. on the other hand the hispanics went crazy wid that yo quiero taco bell ad saying it insulted them. so just bcoz we are more tolerant shudnt mean open season on brown ppl. there is a limit. in this case maybe kamdar overeacted abit but i am sure many of us said things in the heat of the moment we regret.


 59 · Manju on February 12, 2007 04:01 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
Is this true? I think the defender would need some pretty clear evidence the assault was imminent.

at first, the fighting words doctrine was almost equivelent to porn or obscenity, ie certain words were so inflamatory that they had lower constitutional protection. but since then, scotus has consistently narrowed the doctrine to mean threat of immediate violence.

convictions based on the fighting words doctrine are extremely rare in this country as free speech is the critical value in a democracy. one word is ususally not enough, but if someone were to repeatedly scream obscenities at another person, the courts may uphold a conviction.

but universities have been abandoning this liberal tradition of jurisprudence, as dinesh d'souza reminds us in illiberal education. (hope u don't consider the d'souza ref a fighting word, HMF)


 60 · Clueless on February 12, 2007 04:04 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Like Razib I want to high school that was 95% white [8 brown students out of 750] and a couple of people who were gays. At worst I get a joke about Apu and the simpsons. But the few gay students in my school were treated like crap.


 61 · razib on February 12, 2007 04:04 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

This statement is a bit contradictory, isn't it? If we're "privileged", how can we be exposed to racism? Seems like there's a way to go before we can be called the oppressors.

are you a manichaean? i've been reading this blog for more than 2 years now, and there are comments about "crackers" and "white trash" now and then and plenty of generalizations about "white people." what do you think the average SES of these people are who are making these jokes?

anyway, let me give you an example. a good looking brown dude with an M.D. is probably in a better life situation than a fat, ugly white female high school drop out. in fact, perhaps it's my own personal biases, but i think being a man of any race today might very well be a better situation than being a female of any race (depending on what your values are).

if non-whites are, no matter their looks, their wealth and their education oppressed, then i think it is a good argument go back to a national origins policy and admit only white immigrants, because no matter the skills they bring visible minorities are clearly an inevitable social stress.

I think brown ppl have alot of tolerance and i havent seen anyone making a complaint about this ad. on the other hand the hispanics went crazy wid that yo quiero taco bell ad saying it insulted them.

jokes between ethnic groups can be a signal for levels of comfort, as well as mockery and discomfort.


 62 · MD on February 12, 2007 04:08 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Neal with no 'e'.

Good point.

When systems of incentive are created (affirmative action for one, and no, I am not arguing for or against aa), or the narrative of oppression becomes the main narrative (as in, class doesn't matter), then it is a perfectly natural outcome to have groups try and 'rate' their oppression on some kind of scale. Well, not all people in a particular group. But some.


 63 · aditi on February 12, 2007 04:14 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

"gay slurs have zero tolerance at America's overzealously politically correct, self-rightous, speech censoring universities."

absolutely agree, umang. for example, personal experience has shown me that cornell university (the opposite of that university above) doesn't seem to care if my white roommate fails to censor herself when telling me she "doesn't date short, stumpy asian men who smell bad," or that she thinks "jewish russians and white russians should not mix and is why she will not join hillel." calling her a "cossack" or "bitch" on the other hand got this brown girl reprimanded easily (bad choice on my part entirely). but the controversy-cover-ups at universities like mine extend from race to gender and sexuality as well. even if a boy harasses me for several weeks questioning my sexuality and intimidating me by making me react to his calling me lesbian in many different ways (subversively and directly), i apparently "don't have a strong enough case" to seek higher administrative intervention. both of these boys deserve serious punishment, not just a slap on the wrist. i don't feel expulsion is the solution, but coach diesel has some good ideas :)

coach diesel,

i sure wish you were around here last year to lend me a...erm...foot or two! that is simply awesome...especially the pushups. i bet it worked to teach them that superiority and strength are not manifested in the ways they thought they were!

*i'm sending my (future) sons to military school to have them learn self-discipline and determination.*


 64 · razib on February 12, 2007 04:14 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

anecdote about conflict. a friend of mine was consulted about an issue a local gay group had at a university in the midwest (he works for a civil rights group in NYC). the issue was that the gay group and the black student union petitioned for money to make a building extension to house their orgs offices from the uni, but after completion the BSU requested that they get the whole wing. the argument made in some of the meetings was that the BSU needed a comfortable "safe space," and those terrifying white gays made them uncomfortable. but a black member of the LGBTA heard through back channels that there was talk of not wanting to be next to "f**gots" everyday in some of the internal meetings of the BSU officers.

diversity is strength!


 65 · HMF on February 12, 2007 04:18 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
what do you think the average SES of these people are who are making these jokes

Race privelage exists within class, or SES. Compare a good looking brown dude with an MD to a good looking white dude with an MD. or a Fat white dropout with a fat non white dropout. It's really in only these contexts can racial comparisons hold any value.

I'd agree with you and say South Asians are privelaged, but it's class privelage we have, not race privelage. And it can be yanked away at any time.

Manju:

at first, the fighting words doctrine was almost equivelent to porn or obscenity, ie certain words were so inflamatory that they had lower constitutional protection

Lower constitutional protection doesn't immediately translate to sufficient and reasonable cause for violence.


 66 · Neal (with no 'e') on February 12, 2007 04:19 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Damn razib, down. I've been agreeing with most of what you say.

Sure, SES changes the way that individuals are treated by the larger society. A wealthy Indian can overcome a lot of racial baggage, the same way a wealthy African-American or Latino can. And that's great -- it's part of what makes this country so much better able to handle diversity than most of the world. But that doesn't mean the racial baggage is not present, and it may assert itself at times. The handsome brown doctor is not privileged because he's brown -- he's privileged because he's WEALTHY (and male, and good-looking to some extent).

If "South Asian privilege" exists, it's merely a reflection of American immigration policy only allowing the wealthiest/best educated immigrants in. It's not a systemic product of American social history the way that white privilege is. Brownness is considered an aberration here. It's something you have to overcome, and it's something that weighs heavily on the members of our community who happened to make it here without the graduate degrees or siginficant family investment. The day is coming when many Indians in this country are not going to be the wealthy MD types.

I'm not saying that our situation is terrible. The stereotypes about us are far less damaging than African-Americans, Latinos, or other groups. But they're still real and they still impact life chances. I don't call that "privilege".


 67 · jaya on February 12, 2007 04:19 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

1. What shimi said.

2. Privilege does not indicate absolute authority/power. we are ALL privileged in some areas, and face oppression in others. take me, for example: I'm a person of color in the U.S. (oppressed), but I'm well-off financially (privileged), but my family is Hindu (privileged within desi community), oh but I'm queer (oppressed) and a woman (oppressed) and trans (oppressed), but wait I'm college-educated (privileged), and I'm able-bodied (privileged).

3. IMO, the problem wasn't that one idiot used a racial/ethnic slur and the other used a gay one in particular; the problem is that they reduced each other to one dimension and used that as a basis for not getting along. And then they hit each other. D'oh.


 68 · razib on February 12, 2007 04:19 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

And it can be yanked away at any time.

doubt it. america runs on $$$, and class is predominantly inherited now (look at the regression for south asian male immigrant father's educational level and their sons, and the drop off isn't very large).


 69 · instant_karma on February 12, 2007 04:22 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

I'd agree with you and say South Asians are privelaged, but it's class privelage we have, not race privelage. And it can be yanked away at any time.

well said!


 70 · MD on February 12, 2007 04:23 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Jaya: that was great. I loved that comment.

The point is: We are each individuals as well as part of a group. Anyway, in some instances (much, much rarer than the opposite, true) being white and male doesn't protect you. Duke, anyone?


 71 · Neal (with no 'e') on February 12, 2007 04:25 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
the problem is that they reduced each other to one dimension and used that as a basis for not getting along. And then they hit each other. D'oh.

:) This is the best summation I've seen.

I mean it usually comes down to idiots hitting each other in these great ideological struggles, doesn't it?


 72 · razib on February 12, 2007 04:26 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

but my family is Hindu (privileged within desi community)

that's a subjective perception. if you remove the confounding class factor i think christian south asians are prolly privileged because they don't "worship monkeys and cows." before 9/11 being of muslim origin was a definite positive in social situations since i could make fun of the weirdness of hinduism vis-a-vis abrahamic faiths.

The day is coming when many Indians in this country are not going to be the wealthy MD types.

last i checked the census numbers it isn't 1975, but neither are south asians mostly a cabbie community. i know many children of motel-patel's who are in medical school, so there is professional advancement (if you think that is advancement). if check the slope in drop of education over the last 25 years it's really modest (i can relook up the numbers later).


 73 · Umang on February 12, 2007 04:34 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
Both students were idiots for going there and then to let it descend into pushing and shoving was even dumber.

But, the question is whether the punishment (or lack thereof) meted out to each student was proportional to the crime.

You'd be hard pressed to find a bigger advocate of gay rights than me but the idea of speech police at universities (of all places!) is a bit alarming. I think the Economist wrote an interesting piece that reasoned against speech police (in the context of whether to make holocaust denial a crime), while considering both sides of the argument:

http://economist.com/world/europe/displaystory.cfm?story_id=8592923

Here are some of the best quotes:

As Jacques Chirac says, Holocaust denial is a perversion of the soul and a crime against truth. But that does not mean it should be a crime in law.

Brigitte Zypries, the German justice minister, is surely justified when she says, “We believe there are limits to freedom of expression.” The question is where you draw those limits. In the liberal tradition, they have been put at the point where speech becomes a threat to others.

Holocaust-denial laws, then, may not be the best way of dealing with the problem of Holocaust denial. In addition, they impose their own, often hidden, costs. Such laws can take you down a slippery slope. One may think the Holocaust was a uniquely dreadful event. Even so, it is hard, once you have passed a Holocaust-denial law, not to extend it. Asked why the EU proposed to pass a law about the genocide victims of one of 20th-century Europe's totalitarian ideologies (fascism) but not the other (communism), Ms Zypries replied it was just a matter of timing. By implication, the EU will one day propose banning gulag-denial too.

Holocaust denial laws are wrong whoever imposes them. But they are at least understandable in countries where Nazism had indigenous roots. No such excuse can be made for the European Union as a whole.


 74 · instant_karma on February 12, 2007 04:36 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
i think christian south asians are prolly privileged because they don't "worship monkeys and cows."

wat are u saying razib????


 75 · Kush Tandon on February 12, 2007 04:37 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Duke, anyone?

Are you referring to David Duke? In his day, he had quite a run. He got lot of traction when ran for Governor of Louisiana against Edwin Edwards (55% of the white vote).

Or are you referring to Duke U. recent rape case? That is also not that simple either.


 76 · razib on February 12, 2007 04:37 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

No such excuse can be made for the European Union as a whole.

the "liberal tradition" differences in france in comparison to the anglo nations. for that matter, in canada they "respect" freedom of speech, they don't "worship" it.


 77 · MD on February 12, 2007 04:42 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Kush, indeed, I am referring to the Duke rape case. Have you been following K.C. Johnson?


 78 · razib on February 12, 2007 04:43 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

wat are u saying razib????

i'm saying most americans think that hindus are bizarre pagans. e.g., remember the simpsons when there was a show about religious ecumenicalism and when they moved to apu they showed a 6 armed statue of kali and were uncomfortable? hindus might perceive themselves as being privileged, but christians regularly mock the religion and would certainly think that christian indians were more normal in their religious beliefs.

personally, i think all religious exhibit the same sophistication as papuans worship a penis fetish, but most religious people tend to believe their own delusion is somehow more natural and rational. that's life.


 79 · MD on February 12, 2007 04:45 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

razib: that's cow worshipping idolator to you, sir! (okay, kids, I'm kidding).

Kush: there have been few people who have written as much about the case as K.C. Johnson. The details are pretty terrible and embarrassing (for Nifong).


 80 · Kush Tandon on February 12, 2007 04:47 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Have you been following K.C. Johnson?

Yes, and the whole mess.


 81 · MD on February 12, 2007 04:48 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Hmmmmm.

let's try this.


 82 · Al_Mujahid_for_debauchery on February 12, 2007 05:48 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

MD and her ilk are so thrilled to finally find a white defendant who got screwed by the system. Hallelujah!
This of course translates to the end of institutional racism against blacks in the justice system as we now know that being a whitey in the justice system is as bad as being a black man. If you disagree with that, please read about the Duke case.


 83 · Al_Mujahid_for_debauchery on February 12, 2007 05:52 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

fighting words" are recognized in common law as an initiation of violence, and a punch in retaliation could be self-defense

Where in the Common Law is punching in retaliation to words constitute a self defense?

I think you might be thinking about Pushtun code of honor and not the Common Law ;)


 84 · MD on February 12, 2007 05:53 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

What an incredibly rude thing to say, Al M., and after all this time commenting to each other on this blog. You know me better than that.

I'm not happy when any innocent person is railroade: white, black or brown. You read a million things into my comment that are not there. Wow. You must be proud.


 85 · Al_Mujahid_for_debauchery on February 12, 2007 05:57 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

I guess I was rude to you as you didnt really express that sentiment.

Ok, I apologize for overstating my case.

However, I do think there is too much chest beating in some corners of the right about this Duke case as if this case is ANYTHING BUT AN ABERRATION. You of course did not echo that there so I was wrong in lashing out at you.


 86 · razib on February 12, 2007 05:57 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

yeah AMJ, that wuz rude. mebee you think it is warranted, but you're a lawyer, you know that presentation matters in argument. if your argument is angelic it sure displayed an ugly face.


 87 · shimi on February 12, 2007 05:58 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Does this discussion have to be about gay ( apparently code word for white) priviledge versus brown? Where in this conversation is the place for the brown and gay? Or will that mess up the neat little dichotomy?

Once again, the two guys we're talking about=idiots.


 88 · MD on February 12, 2007 05:58 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

You know, usually, I let this stuff pass because it happens all the time in the comments section. Show me where I said there was the end of all racism. Show me Al M. Show me in the comments above.

Where I say it is a much, much rarer event than the reverse? Is it when I say racism exists? Is it when I said that class exists? Point out to me where I say what you interpreted through my comments? Sheesh. My ilk, indeed. Where have I ever said that there is no such thing as racism against blacks? Where?


 89 · MD on February 12, 2007 06:00 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Okay, we missed each other in commenting, Al M. Sorry for getting mad.

I guess I do take the contrarian position a lot here, so I see how someone could misinterpret me.


 90 · instant_karma on February 12, 2007 06:03 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

keep fighting itz healthy


 91 · jilted_manhood on February 12, 2007 06:13 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

This of course translates to the end of institutional racism against blacks in the justice system as we now know that being a whitey in the justice system is as bad as being a black man.

And you won't even be warned! Thanks for reinforcing my characterization, in comment # 27, of this blog's lopsided policing. Why the hate though? I am curious. Oh it's not a slur it's just a metaphor for privilege, power, bla bla bla. Right?


 92 · Manju on February 12, 2007 06:26 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
Where in the Common Law is punching in retaliation to words constitute a self defense?

if a person could resonably construe that the words themselves are a threat to violence. If i said to you, "AMFD, i don't like you, the aclu, and your ilk, so i'm going to kick your ass"...you could launch a pre-emptive strike.

i don't know of any case law where someone retaliated as the cases in question have been govt ordinances against certain words. but right now, the standard seems to be words that "reasonably incite the average person to retaliate" and risk "an immediate breach of the peace" can be regulated. i think that would make for a good self-defense acquital.

but suffice to say, the courts have been wisely narrowing what constitutes a fighting word, while american univeristies have been expanding it. for that reason, civil libertarians like yourself should really join forces with MD and her ilk.


 93 · DJ Drrrty Poonjabi on February 12, 2007 06:41 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
But everyone has "blackdar" or "browndar"

I Can Instantly Tell Whether Someone Is African-American With My Amazing 'Blackdar'

I have this amazing gift. It's called "blackdar," and it enables me to tell whether someone is African-American without even knowing anything about them. To be honest, I don't know where I got the skill. But wherever I did, I can pass somebody on the street and just instantly know.

Like that guy from Saturday Night Live? That Kenan Thompson? That guy is definitely black, no doubt about it. He gives off all the signals.

And Missy Elliot? You better believe she's black. [link]


 94 · Al_Mujahid_for_debauchery on February 12, 2007 06:54 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Manju: Though you usually know what you are talking about and know a LOT for a non-lawyer, I am afraid you are confusing the issues here.

Whether a government regulation (here: criminalizing certain words) has to jump through the hoops of constitutional protection (first amendment protections of free speech) has nothing to do with the fact of whether the fighting words here (go back to India/ faggot) constitute a self-defense or even mitigating circumstances for throwing a punch under criminal law.

For example: Even if the Supreme Court were to give the highest level of First Amendment constitutional protection to all fighting words including unambiguous invitations to a physical brawl, it would have no bearing on whether they would constitute a self-defense or mitigating circumstances if a punch were thrown in retaliation to that unambiguous invitation to a brawl.


 95 · chitrana on February 12, 2007 07:08 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Do we actually have proof that he was provoked? He may just be playing the race card after saying something stupid. I find it hard to believe the AU would simply suspend him without first checking up on his side of the story. People usually tend to be more politically correct about race than about homosexuals.


 96 · Doordarshan on February 12, 2007 07:18 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
South Asian American privilege is real

Wishful self-delusion. South asians are socially handicapped in America by their dark colored skins, their lack of athleticism, their general "uncoolness". South asians also are more likely to be below the american poverty line than whites and less likely to own their own homes, which is part and parcel of the american dream.


a good looking brown dude with an M.D. is probably in a better life situation than a fat, ugly white female high school drop out.

A typically dumb desi argument. As if the best of desis compared to the worst of whites proves desis are "privileged'!

And just for your information Razib, desis on average aren't seen as "good looking" by americans. Quite the contrary. East asian females are probably the only non-caucasian group that are considered as good-looking on average by white americans.


 97 · Manju on February 12, 2007 07:18 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

amfd:

interesting. i'm mixing up constitutional and criminal law. so the question is, is there any case law where a defendant was acquitted of assault because he was responding to a fighting word (said in a context that a reasonable person could interpret as an immanent threat)?


 98 · ak on February 12, 2007 07:30 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Al M picked up on the basic sentiment behind the fighting words doctrine [though Manju did mention the imminent threat aspect]. Even though the doctrine was heralded in the middle of the twentieth century [particularly during wartime - WWII and Vietnam]the basic jurisprudential view is that the word must have the effect of being an actual threat of immediate violence, and cannot be judged merely on the offensive nature of the content. That is why there is a distinction between protected and unprotected fighting words, and most fighting words are protected under the First Amendment. In response to somebody else's question that there could never be a threat without more than speech - the law looks at both objective and subjective factors, so the context/circumstance play a heavy role. Essentially, fighting words will almost always be protected. In this case, I think many are right to say that it was the violence that did it for AU. Also, I find it somewhat odd that Kamdar used the defense of fighting words as provocation, since his immediate reaction to the comment was not violence, but rather to lobby back his own slur. Of course, it all must have happened in the span of seconds, but I don't think any court [and rightly so] would ever look at the other student's comment as sufficiently provocative, just as [also right so] no court would consider the gay slur sufficient provocation.


 99 · Manju on February 12, 2007 07:30 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
I find it hard to believe the AU would simply suspend him without first checking up on his side of the story.

yeah, i'm skeptical too. i think he hit the guy first. however, many of these university courts have descended into kangaroo ones...totally neglecting liberal traditions--right to confront accuser (especially in sexual assault cases), tranparancy, etc. d'souza documented a lot of it in illiberal ed, ergo the title. fire is a good place to see what's gont on.


 100 · Manju on February 12, 2007 07:35 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
South asians are socially handicapped in America by their dark colored skins, their lack of athleticism, their general "uncoolness".

for gods sake Doordarshan; please start lifting weights, learn a sport, go out to bars and get a sense of humor. projection ain't only what happens in movie theaters.


 101 · shlok on February 12, 2007 07:45 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
are you a manichaean?

razib at #61, dude that's an awesome insult. what a smart ass insult that his haha!

anyway back to being relevant. um interesting the direction this conversation went. naina asked twice in her blog if someone from american university could step up and enlighten us more on what is going on. but i guess sm is not read over there.

i'd be real pissed to find out if kamdar was expelled and that was the end of it.


 102 · HMF on February 12, 2007 07:49 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
Anyway, in some instances (much, much rarer than the opposite, true) being white and male doesn't protect you.

I 100% agree, but those cases are when privelage and special treatment have gone so far, as to actually harm rather than protect. For example, During the Columbine incident, a SWAT team member who was one of the first on the scene wrote about how his commanders didn't storm the school right away - why? because a rich white school has people with power who can sue local police. So they (inadvertently) let more people die.

If it was a school on Crenshaw, you think they wouldn't storm that shit in 2 seconds?


 103 · Camille on February 12, 2007 08:03 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

This is crazy, but I would absolutely like to know more about what really happened. I'm with chitrana; I'm wary of someone pulling the "race card" when they got in trouble for saying something stupid and then getting in a fight. I don't know if it warrants expulsion, but I also don't know what really happened.

Also, for those who are worried about the "hyper-PC" U.S. university, y'all are way off. Campuses where homophobia is eschewed are absolutely in the minority, and there's a lot of difference between what a university says and the actions it takes, or the campus climate for people in the LGBTIQQ community. Same goes for issues of race, except that I think nation-wide people have done a good job of trying make racism a non-issue by ignoring it, calling it overly sensitive, co-opting the language of equality, or denying its lasting impact.

I think the whole "oppression olympics" game here is totally unuseful. As was mentioned before, privilege is dynamic and operates on numerous vectors. I think jaya had a great example of how it's complicated. Also, while I agree with 90% of what razib has said, when you're trying to quantify things, I don't think it's useful to compare apples (desi, male, M.D.) with oranges (white, high school drop out, female).


 104 · Camille on February 12, 2007 08:11 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
If it was a school on Crenshaw, you think they wouldn't storm that shit in 2 seconds?
I can't help but get off topic, but one of the family members who I work with put it really nicely recently. He said, "if they did this shit to a white child, people would revolt!" He was talking about the CYA (or DJJ I guess), but the underlying premise about violence against black youth is the same.

 105 · Sriram on February 12, 2007 08:13 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

AK (#98):

It's my understanding that most courts and most state penal codes treat the fighting words doctrine as an anachronism. I don't think it comes up as a legal issue anymore.


 106 · nkn on February 12, 2007 08:22 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

well said Doordarshan, well said.


 107 · Abid on February 12, 2007 08:44 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Wow. I'm a recent AU graduate, and this story shocks me. AU does have a large and active Gay and Lesbian Community, and I'm sure that has a lot to do with what happened, but when I was in school, this sort of thing would have been a blip on the radar.

AU has like 11 total desis, and they're all the preppy NJ-doctors-kid-driving-land-crusier type, but if the dude who got expelled had any clue, he should have known better.


 108 · ak on February 12, 2007 09:22 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

sriram, you're right - law schools these days give you the bottom line of: fighting words = insufficient provocation. my point was just that the reason why it's not an effective defense [also the reason why it's an anachronism] is that the level that the evolved doctrine eventually set was so high as to make it not worth it. and like i said, he first responded with words before fighting - making his particular case that much less of a candidate for the defense....


 109 · sakshi on February 12, 2007 09:33 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
projection ain't only what happens in movie theaters.

hee hee


 110 · The Other Brown Meat on February 12, 2007 09:47 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

I'm jumping in late, but I was rather shocked when I heard about this. I actually know Rick. I met him while he was being treated for cancer and the fact that he was asking someone for a light in the first place seems like all that treatment was for nothing. I really would like to know more about what happened. He wasn't a horrible human being, but he certainly wasn't one to keep his mouth shut either. He probably came up with a reasonably witty come back. He never seemed like the kind of guy who would let things get violent though.


 111 · Emma on February 12, 2007 11:14 PM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Razib said:
personally, i think all religious exhibit the same sophistication as papuans worship a penis fetish, but most religious people tend to believe their own delusion is somehow more natural and rational. that's life.

I was there with you on this topic, Razib, BUT not all the way! I was pretty anti-religious myself (esp. in front of my family), but then I grew up (as in learned about a wide variety of people and matured). Face it, not all people who believe in a certain religion are nuts, deluded, or doing negative things. If you are atheist, then fine, but that's YOUR choice!


 112 · Doordarshan on February 13, 2007 03:39 AM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
South asians are socially handicapped in America by their dark colored skins, their lack of athleticism, their general "uncoolness".

for gods sake Doordarshan; please start lifting weights, learn a sport, go out to bars and get a sense of humor. projection ain't only what happens in movie theaters.

hee hee


Hmmm, so Manju and Sakshi actually think that desi-americans are seen as cool, hip, socially "privileged", fair-skinned athletic jocks who are the life of bar parties?? LOL.

This level of delusion has got to be pathological, and requires professional help. Seriously.


 113 · sakshi on February 13, 2007 03:41 AM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

hee hee


 114 · Doordarshan on February 13, 2007 04:45 AM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
before 9/11 being of muslim origin was a definite positive in social situations since i could make fun of the weirdness of hinduism vis-a-vis abrahamic faiths

The kind of americans you ingratiated yourself with in "social situations" by making fun of "the weirdness of hinduism vis-a-vis abrahamic faiths" are probably also the kind that get a thrill out of put downs of non-european races. Some desi-americans we know have made a career out of this. You have been amusing the wrong crowd pal.

Among the better educated classes in America it is the bible-thumpers from the Red States who are often the objects of ridicule for their absurd abrahamic beliefs. Abrahamists are a small minority among the members of the American Academy of Sciences for example. Or among american self-made billionaires. Yoga and meditation are far more popular in America than anything that came out of Islam. Especially among the educated elite. Close to 30% of americans believe in reincarnation, which is anathema for abrahamic true-believers.


personally, i think all religious exhibit the same sophistication as papuans worship a penis fetish

That just shows that you are incapable of thinking deeply.


 115 · MD on February 13, 2007 09:13 AM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Uh, years ago, in the eighties, my brother was a 'jock' and took a very pretty girl to the prom. Walking around Boston, I see a lot of very handsome young desi men. Quite fit and athletic looking, too. I catch the young girls giving those young men a look out of the corner of their eyes.....ah, life is not fair! If you are handsome, you are treated differently. So what? Learn to do what women have been enculturated to do for ages: Make the best of what you got.


 116 · MD on February 13, 2007 09:16 AM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Is Doordarshan some kind of subtle satirist that I don't quite get?


 117 · Amitabh on February 13, 2007 09:26 AM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
Hmmm, so Manju and Sakshi actually think that desi-americans are seen as cool, hip, socially "privileged", fair-skinned athletic jocks who are the life of bar parties?? LOL.

That may not be the over-riding stereotype of desis, but there are plenty of the above type people around. If you take 'fair-skinned' and 'athletic' out but leave all the other adjectives there, then you'll get even bigger numbers of desis who fit that description (cool, hip, life of the party, etc). Just hang out in NYC on any given Saturday night, you'll see droves of them.

Is Doordarshan some kind of subtle satirist that I don't quite get?
He's just full of hatred. It's hard to believe he's even a desi.

 118 · HMF on February 13, 2007 09:32 AM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)
I can't help but get off topic, but one of the family members who I work with put it really nicely recently. He said, "if they did this shit to a white child, people would revolt!" He was talking about the CYA (or DJJ I guess), but the underlying premise about violence against black youth is the same.

CYA? DJJ?


 119 · risible on February 13, 2007 09:33 AM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Yoga and meditation are far more popular in America than anything that came out of Islam. Especially among the educated elite. Close to 30% of americans believe in reincarnation, which is anathema for abrahamic true-believers.

Thrity million Americans attend yoga classes. Many chant Sanskrit mantras. The reception of Indic spirituality is more complex than the caste/curry/cow-model - though there is truth to that too.

Anyway, in fairness to Razib, I think he grew up in a small Mormon town. I can imagine a group of provincial Abrahamics making fun of Hindus. There is, however, little question that Muslims have it worse of all brownz at the moment, and then Sikhs. The attitude to Hindus is probably neutral.


 120 · coach diesel on February 13, 2007 09:47 AM · Direct link · “Quote”(?)

Hmmm, so Manju and Sakshi actually think that desi-americans are seen as cool, hip, socially "privileged", fair-skinned athletic jocks who are the life of bar parties??

Who cares ho